Facebook

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Facebook

Nowadays, Facebook has created the new phenomena worldwide. Now, the people that have no Facebook account is a minority among us. Facebook can bring good to us, also can bring bad to its users. Hence, users of Facebook have to being motivated on knowing and applying the right tips in using Facebook.

I would like to share to all of you, the tips given by Ustaz Zaharuddin Abd Rahman on using Facebook in SOLUSI isu 17.

• Manipulating the Facebook account for the benefit of Islam more than personal interest. So, this is the chance to promote Islam through posting status, video, photos and so on.
• Do not include personal data such as account number, health level and so on. It is enough to just provide name, birth of date, and education background.
• Do not share much personal photos, especially women unlimitedly.It is because it can bring more harm than benefit. And has to be remembered all time, those photos will remain in Facebook accounts of people that we are tagged in and of course in Facebook company database.
• Keep your aurat and your eye sight. Do not upload photos that showed us in incomplete aurat keeping (especially women).
• Avoid "ghibah" / backbitting in Facebookbecause as Muslims , all of us already know that backbitting is like eating our own relative's dead body.
• Limit and reduce discussion on "light" issue that just only wasting your time and others.
• Do not play games and application that can be assumed as against Islam, for example, quiz on determining soulmate.
• Do not believe modern "tilik" application whether because of no specific purpose or otherwise.
• Aware that every single information that we provide in Facebook will become database of third party in order to monitor our lives and our personal information, if we are not controlling this situation.

High Self Confident vs Low High Confidence

Assalaamu'alaikum and very good morning to all of you, my visitors.


How are you today? For Muslims, how's your "iman" today? hopefully both of them are in good condition..insha Allah :)


Self-Confident


Self confident is very fundamental to us.So what is self confident actually? Self confident is our own view towards our own self regarding the ability to become success and excellent in world and hereafter. Indeed, our own view about our self is more important than others' view towards ourself.


Yet, people are categorized to two; the high self confident and low self-confident.


High self-confident, they are such people that have the below characteristics within themselves:

• able to do work that has to be done even though he does not like the job.
• competitive and resilient
• self-disciplined, self-motivation, and able to do self-censored
• able to apologize if wronged, and forgive if required.
• bear to admit own mistake and improving it.
• celebrate the difference without creating conflicting situation.
• independent, proactive and productive.
• brave and bear to take risk.

Contrast with high self confident people, the low self confident people have those criteria below:

• unable to do task for his own excellence.
• hot-tempered and become mad when being tested, being disturbed and being blamed.
• just do the work that he liked, not the work that he has to do.
• love to babble and complain.
• waiting for chances, not finding the opportunity.
• change to better only when being forced, not with his own pleasure.
• less rational emotion.

In short, it is always be our choice, whether wants to be people with high self-confident or low self-confident.

Make your business creative!

Assalaamu'alaikum to all viewers.

Today, let us talk about business.

Creative is one of the important attributes of business. I would like to motivate all of you by sharing with all of you, the ideas on how to show creativity in our business.

1. Business idea

Many people asked about idea for them to run the business? Just look inside yourself or your industry. Many of us had the ideas of the product or service, but we always "kill" the ideas with the curiosity over our potential or teh idea itself.

2. Business name.

It is good if the business name is associated with our business functions. It is a mistake if the name is not related to our business function.In addition, business name acts as a strategy to promote our business. An effective business name occurs when the function or your industry is determined just through your business name.

3. Image that you showed off.

Image is very crucial in business. Image will differ you and others. In busines, you have to highlight your image confidently. Just look at Donald Trump in television. He always wear suite with neck tie. Differ from the millionaire, Richard Branson, he wears the casual cloth. This shows relaxed image and fun. 

So being motivated to think about your own image and show off through your business. The appearance of image which shows low confident will reduce your customer trust.

# I hope all of you, the entrepreneur was motivated after reading this post! ;)

Growing the diligent inside our children

Assalaamu'alaikum to all viewers.


How are you today? Hope you are in good condition. Insha Allah. Today I would like to share about how to grow the diligent attitude inside our children.


1. Provide timetable.


Parents need to provide daily timetable for their children. There are time to study, reading the al-Qur'an, tidy home and play. Parents have to keep their eye on the timetable in order to make sure thier children follow the timetable.


If the children do not follow the timetable or being lazy, motivate them by saying to them that ALLAH hates the lazy attitude. There are many people failed in their life not because they are stupid, but because of the lazy attitude.


2. Give rewards.


For those children that had finished their tasks or managed to follow the timetable, motivate them by giving them rewards. As a reward, we can bring them in a vacation to some interesting places, giving them present and other else. Parents should always giving their courage to their children. For example."I am so happy because you are so diligent and responsible.So, I want to give you this present. But this present is actually small value, compared to what will you receive from Allah S.W.T."


3. Be diligent.


Our children have to be trained to be diligent. They need to being motivated to against their laziness within themselves. Besides they have to being motivated to be diligent in doing "ibadah", they also must be taught to be diligent in helping others in order to keep the relationship between community members. Then, they will be used to it.

Want to be a Millionaire?

Assalaamu'alaikum to all viewers.


All praise to ALLAH that had give us the opportunity to breathe and live in good conditions until today. To begin my first motivation blog in Islamic ways, I would like to share to all of you about those who were the millionaires among the Sahabat of Rasulullah S.A.W and the role of the rich in Islam. 


Almost everyone wants to be rich, plus, becoming a millionaire. But nowadays, we are watching the millionaires from the western countries were lost in their lives, in the end of their lives.For instance, Leon Fraser, the President of "Bank Penempatan Antarabangsa" had killed himself by his own.Yet, they are still some of people right now who want to become rich and make them as their role model in becoming a millionaire, being motivated when reading about them, watching on them in television, despite of exploring the true millionaires in Islamic world that are the true millionaires that were more holier than the western millionaires..


Islam had raised up when the Arabians were in "jahiliyah" phase. In a glance, Rasulullah S.A.W. was successfully developed a very first Muslim community in the world after he had planted the true belief "'aqidah" firmly inside each of the Muslim. As the result of the grow of Muslims' economy, there were some figures of millionaire that become the true model of "muttaqin" millionaires.The figures are 'Abdul Rahman bin 'Auf, Uthman bin Affan, Khadijah binti Khuwailid and Abu Bakar al-Siddiq. What differs those figures with the western millionaires?


The most clearest different is the "muttaqin" millionaires were willing to donate, contribute most of their properties for the sake of the spread of Islam, moreover, some of them were guaranteed to live in heaven(jannah). So, aren't we feel motivated after knowing these?


Roles of the Rich People in Islam


A) Towards himself and his family
- settle the "ibadat" that related with money such as zakat and hajj.
-able to gain knowledge for himself also able to send his children and other family members for the same reason.


B) Towards community
- helping in "amar makruf nahi mungkar" via NGO and other welfare organizations.
-contribute some of his properties for the development of infrastructure for the use of whole community.
- paying "property" zakat when the "haul" is enough.
- provide work opportunities to Muslims especially by providing the Islamic working environment.
- helping in relieving some disasters that occured via humanity help.


C) Towards Islam itself
-contribute("infaq") some funds in order to spread Islam to Muslims and Non Muslims by "da'wah" process that across the international border.


# Aren't we feel motivated to become rich, and in the important is to be a "muttaqin" rich man?