Assalaamu'alaikum to all viewers.
How are you today? Hope you are in good condition. Insha Allah. Today I would like to share about how to grow the diligent attitude inside our children.
1. Provide timetable.
Parents need to provide daily timetable for their children. There are time to study, reading the al-Qur'an, tidy home and play. Parents have to keep their eye on the timetable in order to make sure thier children follow the timetable.
If the children do not follow the timetable or being lazy, motivate them by saying to them that ALLAH hates the lazy attitude. There are many people failed in their life not because they are stupid, but because of the lazy attitude.
2. Give rewards.
For those children that had finished their tasks or managed to follow the timetable, motivate them by giving them rewards. As a reward, we can bring them in a vacation to some interesting places, giving them present and other else. Parents should always giving their courage to their children. For example."I am so happy because you are so diligent and responsible.So, I want to give you this present. But this present is actually small value, compared to what will you receive from Allah S.W.T."
3. Be diligent.
Our children have to be trained to be diligent. They need to being motivated to against their laziness within themselves. Besides they have to being motivated to be diligent in doing "ibadah", they also must be taught to be diligent in helping others in order to keep the relationship between community members. Then, they will be used to it.
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