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How are you today? For Muslims, how's your "iman" today? hopefully both of them are in good condition..insha Allah :)
Self-Confident
Self confident is very fundamental to us.So what is self confident actually? Self confident is our own view towards our own self regarding the ability to become success and excellent in world and hereafter. Indeed, our own view about our self is more important than others' view towards ourself.
Yet, people are categorized to two; the high self confident and low self-confident.
High self-confident, they are such people that have the below characteristics within themselves:
- able to do work that has to be done even though he does not like the job.
- competitive and resilient
- self-disciplined, self-motivation, and able to do self-censored
- able to apologize if wronged, and forgive if required.
- bear to admit own mistake and improving it.
- celebrate the difference without creating conflicting situation.
- independent, proactive and productive.
- brave and bear to take risk.
Contrast with high self confident people, the low self confident people have those criteria below:
- unable to do task for his own excellence.
- hot-tempered and become mad when being tested, being disturbed and being blamed.
- just do the work that he liked, not the work that he has to do.
- love to babble and complain.
- waiting for chances, not finding the opportunity.
- change to better only when being forced, not with his own pleasure.
- less rational emotion.
In short, it is always be our choice, whether wants to be people with high self-confident or low self-confident.
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